genderqueer shenanigans Show more
Shopped for the first time in the women's section of the thrift store today. Found a sleeveless top that looks good, I think. Was pretty anxiety-inducing, but my wife was accompanying me, which made it easier.
Probably going to redye my hair and do my nails tomorrow.
anybody know a place where I could order individual custom decals for keyboard keys?
lol some people don't thrift shop
my fav anime trope may actually be "really banging op that you finally hear the extended version of in the climactic scene of the finale"
Cried from watching the Xbox accessibility controller promo. That may seem hyperbolic, but the topic is important to me on a personal level.
See, my dad is disabled on one side. Most consoles are unplayable for him.
We could play some PC adventure games, but little else until the Wii came out (and I was in high school).
I would've loved to grow up sharing games with him, but it just wasn't there.
So, to know that less people will want like I did? Heck yeah I'll cry. That's wonderful.
But very few things scare me quite as much, bone-deep, as the average IT person's implicit trust in the pure-hearted goodness of Large Corporations.
The bigger the corporation, the more the trust.
self esteem / queer Show more
Literally spent most of my life going "I'm not queer" and lo and behold that did nothing but make me afraid to present myself as myself
and sure I moved to this city three years ago but I still am surrounded by paranoia, which took a life time to build and honestly will take years to undo.
I nuked my own career chances in many ways, but to be honest the biggest one was pushing myself too much to present as strongly masculine, and spiralling into complete self destruction.
oh no the theramin ghost has returned